Some Things Can Never be Fixed in A Relationship

Pure relationship, a strong, deep, or close association or acquaintance between two or more people. We cannot fix some things in a relationship. We need to be very careful while saying anything or doing anything. No matter what you do, you cannot fix certain things.

Sometimes we do things in certain way that hurt other person and no matter what we do to fix it; we cannot take our words or the hurt back. We have said it, it has been done now, the other person has received it, and it cannot be taken back. People say that time heals everything but the truth is, not everything is repairable.

Sometimes, some things just remain broken, to haunt us for our entire lifetimes. All we can do is move further, trying not to look back. Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner.

For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment. The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate. A great deal of evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship begins in infancy, in a child’s earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant’s needs for food, care, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Those relationships are not destiny, but they appear to establish patterns of relating to others. Failed relationships happen for many reasons, and the failure of a relationship is often a source of great psychological anguish. Most of us have to work consciously to master the skills necessary to make them flourish.

Here are the things that any of us cannot fix in relationship, so we better be careful.

  1. Infidelity
    Trust is something that is once broken, remains broken. The broken shards of trust can put permanent cut in a relationship. You might accept your partner back into the relationship but things won’t be same anymore. The one who has cheated will have to suffer the consequences of his or her wrong doings.
  2. You can forgive but cannot forget
    Many a time there are situations, events, actions that emerge in a relationship and leave a permanent mark on both the people. We do forgive the other person, or move on from that particular point but in our hearts we are still affected by that thing.
  3. Hurtful words and actions
    Sometimes we are just furious and in that furious state we say or do things that are hurtful. We unintentionally hurt our partner with harsh and unkind words or actions and after that point, it becomes a struggle for them to move on or forget. We just need to be a bit thoughtful while saying or doing anything because one harsh word from our mouth can permanently leave the other person hurt and sometimes in a worse state.
  4. Being revengeful
    If you think your partner is at fault, don’t be at double fault by taking revenge. If she or he has done something and you decide to take revenge by doing the same to her and him, you are making a mistake. Sometimes words are enough to make the other person realize his or her mistake. This thing will only leave your relationship in a war like zone, where you choose to cut back.
  5. Blocking out the other person
    When we are mad at someone, we sometimes hang up on them. We do not take their calls, do not respond to their texts, we refuse to meet them and all of these things are just leaving the other person in a vulnerable state. He or she is suddenly all alone. You are in a bad mood but the other person is suddenly helpless, lonely and is clueless. When you block the other person out, you basically give them a taste of what loneliness feels like or what their life might look like without you. Sometimes, you get back to your normal state but the other person is left shaken and in fear of losing you.

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